It’s interesting to me that the only people that ever complain about this are trans-exclusionary radical feminists. Or, gender-critical feminists, if you prefer. Slur or not, this demographic chooses to be really hateful towards trans women.
And you’re the one who’s being disingenuous. NATAL women are not TERFs. Some women are feminists. A small percentage of those women are radical feminists. A small percentage of radical feminists are TERFs. Not all women are TERFs. Only a few are.