I agree. What I was trying to convey is that the irresistible quality that creates attraction is driven by factors other than genetics. I believe genetics is what creates the environment where a person can emanate the entitlement, the charisma, the main character vibe that creates attraction. But genetics without those components will make a person go virtually unnoticed. And if someone can bring that "it" vibe even without genetics on their side, they can be seen as the beauty in the room as well.