Please educate yourself a bit more on the intersection of neurobiology and biology. LOTS of readily-available information there, for those who care to look.
Where do you get the notion that anyone tolerates men who beat trans women?
What are you even talking about “smaller size” for? I would never consider, in the remotest way, insinuate anything about physical confrontations. I honestly do not know what possessed you to write that. (And FYI, I’m 5’2".)
You know about breastfeeding and pregnancies. And truly, congrats. But hon, that doesn’t mean you’ve mastered all of scientific knowledge everywhere.
I am sorry that this article of mine triggered you. I am hoping you can sit with it a while, and see if there is any small kernel of it you can let in.