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But, Menstrual Pads Are For Women! …Aren’t They? (Part 3 —REAL Problems, REAL Feminism)

True Feminism is NOT about transphobic dog whistles. It’s about removing body shame, and abundant access to menstrual care. #ME4All

Cassie Brighter
5 min readOct 27, 2019

This is a three-part article, and it’ll make more sense if you read the previous two parts. [Read Part 1: “The War of the Sexes”] [Read Part 2: “Moving Away from Gender Stereotypes”]

Now, Let’s Focus on REAL Feminist Issues & Solutions

Instead of getting into petty battles or distributing the oppression (oppressing smaller minorities to feel better about our own), let’s look at REAL problems, and let’s look for REAL solutions.

Shrouded In Shame and Secrecy

There is one very tangible problem when it comes to periods. They’re meant to be invisible. They’re shrouded in body shame.

Among women, the topic of menstruation is candidly out in the open. “I’m about to get my period;” “I’m bleeding so much today!” “I have such bad cramps right now.” It’s a natural part of conversation. When men are around, this topic is never brought to the surface.

The euphemisms indicate the sense of secrecy and shame. “Your friend’s here, right?” “Aunt Flo is visiting,” “Checking into the Red Roof Inn.” And of course the old standard, “lady business.” Girls are taught…

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Cassie Brighter
Cassie Brighter

Written by Cassie Brighter

Activist. Public speaker. Writer. Community Organizer. Mom. Creator & Host, Empowered Trans Woman Summit. Managing Editor, EmpoweredTransWoman.com

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